Hakeem & Monica Part 2: Getting Real About Parenting and Answering Your Questions | Golden Hour

Bachelor Happy Hour35mApril 24, 2026

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In this heartfelt continuation of their podcast series, Hakeem and Monica share candid, expert-level parenting advice amid personal reflections and playful banter. They tackle sensitive listener questions with empathy and wisdom, addressing a partner's disappointment over having a daughter, the emotional weight of single motherhood by choice, and the challenges of a partner's irresponsible behavior during pregnancy. Their responses emphasize emotional intelligence, the importance of self-trust, and the need for intentional couple time even after becoming parents. The couple also shares touching personal stories, including Monica’s experience donating breast milk and Hakeem’s humorous yet revealing journey into fatherhood. The episode closes with a lighthearted game, 'Would You Rather,' where they debate parenting dilemmas with humor and affection, reinforcing their strong partnership and shared values. Listeners are reminded that love, presence, and authenticity matter more than perfection.

Key Takeaways
1

Prioritize your couple relationship after having a child—schedule regular date nights to maintain connection.

2

A child’s gender doesn’t define their worth; focus on having a healthy, loved child regardless of gender.

3

Trust your own path in parenting—external opinions don’t define your journey or your worth as a parent.

4

Children learn more from your actions than your words—model the behavior you want them to emulate.

5

Don’t fear sharing raw, imperfect parenting moments online—authenticity builds community and connection.

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Chapters
0:00
5 min

Welcome Back: Real Talk on Pregnancy & Parenting

The hosts kick off the episode with warm welcomes and introduce Hakeem and Monica as they dive into listener questions about pregnancy, gender expectations, and emotional support during the prenatal journey.

5:00
5 min

Handling a Partner’s Disappointment Over a Daughter

You just want a healthy baby. That’s the most important thing. Girl, boy, doesn’t matter.

Highlight
10:00
5 min

Embracing Single Motherhood by Choice

The best family I had was with a single mother. Sometimes it’s the best thing for the child to just have that single parent.

Highlight
15:00
5 min

Addressing a Partner’s Inconsiderate Behavior During Pregnancy

Kids never listen to what you say. They watch what you do.

Highlight
20:00
5 min

A Listener’s Emotional Journey: Miscarriages & IVF

You’re extremely strong for being able to just put yourself out there and tell your story that way.

Highlight
High-Impact Quotes
Kids never listen to what you say. They watch what you do.
Kathy16:49
Viral: 95.0
The best family I had was with a single mother. Sometimes it’s the best thing for the child to just have that single parent.
Hakeem9:13
Viral: 90.0
You just want a healthy baby. That’s the most important thing. Girl, boy, doesn’t matter.
Hakeem4:56
Viral: 85.0
Speakers

Hosts

KathySusan

Guests

HakeemMonica
Topics Discussed
Parental Modeling and Behavior95%Pregnancy Support and Emotional Wellbeing90%Single Parenthood and Chosen Family90%Fertility Struggles and Emotional Resilience85%Gender Expectations and Parenting85%Couple Time After Having a Child80%Parenting Humor and Real Talk75%Breastfeeding and Postpartum Support70%
People & Brands

Monica

person

14xPositive

Hakeem

person

12xPositive

Kathy

person

10xPositive

Marley Marie

person

8xPositive

Susan

person

5xPositive

Bachelor Nation

organization

4xPositive

Golden Hour

media

3xPositive

Bachelor Happy Hour

media

2xPositive

IVF

other

2xNeutral

CPAP

other

2xNeutral

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