Natalie Bassingthwaighte Lifts the Curtain on Her Career & Personal Struggles

Better Than Yesterday with Osher Günsberg1h 7mApril 14, 2026

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Natalie Bassingthwaite opens up in a deeply personal conversation with Osher Günsberg about the emotional and psychological toll of living a public life while grappling with private struggles. She reflects on her journey from a young performer told she'd never make it, to becoming a celebrated star in musical theatre, television, and music—only to later confront the exhaustion of maintaining a flawless image. The heart of the discussion centers on her decision to walk away from a booming clothing brand and a high-profile role on X Factor, not out of failure, but from a profound sense of soul-destruction. She reveals how grief, anxiety, and the loss of her long-time manager Mark Byrne led her to seek therapy and medication, transforming her relationship with mental health. Natalie shares the raw truth of co-parenting after divorce, the courage it took to come out as queer, and the importance of authenticity over perfection. Her new book, *Love Like This*, becomes a manifesto for self-forgiveness, emotional honesty, and the courage to outgrow the life you once built. The episode is a powerful meditation on impermanence, the necessity of boundaries, and the quiet strength found in vulnerability.

Key Takeaways
1

Authenticity requires courage—especially when the world thinks it already knows you.

2

The most important work isn’t on stage or in the spotlight—it’s protecting your sense of self during silence and rejection.

3

Mental health is not a sign of weakness; it’s a necessity, like exercise or nutrition.

4

You don’t need permission to do your job—especially when you’re the one who’s been told no for years.

5

Walking away from success isn’t failure—it’s self-preservation when the cost is too high.

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Chapters
0:00
2 min

The Question of Authenticity

What do you do when the life that you've built, the one that looks flawless from the outside, the one that people literally applaud you for, when that life no longer fits the person you've become?

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2:00
3 min

The Early Struggles: Rejection and Resilience

Natalie recounts being told she was too old at 16, not a good dancer, and not talented—yet she kept showing up. She shares how passion, not just job-seeking, became her fuel.

5:00
5 min

The Cost of Success: Burnout and Soul-Death

It was soul-destroying and we tried to sell it and people were trying to rip us off and lots of things went wrong in the end to go, you know what? What did I get out of this?

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10:00
5 min

The Loss of a Mentor and the Weight of Codependency

Natalie reflects on her intense, codependent relationship with her manager Mark Byrne—his sudden anger, his decline, and the emotional void left after his death.

15:00
5 min

Therapy, Medication, and the Stigma of Mental Health

I didn't want to be the kind of person that needed to have this stuff. Seven terrible years followed before I'm eventually clawing down the door. Like, give me something.

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High-Impact Quotes
You only have to be brave for one breath. Wow. It's like that's it. It is one sentence that will get to the kernel of what it is you need to tell someone.
Natalie Bassingthwaite52:09
Viral: 92.0
What do you do when the life that you've built, the one that looks flawless from the outside, the one that people literally applaud you for, when that life no longer fits the person you've become?
Osher Günsberg0:02
Viral: 90.0
I didn't want to be the kind of person that needed to have this stuff. Seven terrible years followed before I'm eventually clawing down the door. Like, give me something.
Natalie Bassingthwaite40:22
Viral: 88.0
Speakers

Host

Osher Günsberg

Guest

Natalie Bassingthwaite
Topics Discussed
Authenticity and Self-Discovery95%Mental Health and Therapy90%Career Burnout and Exit Strategies88%Co-Parenting After Divorce85%Coming Out and Queer Identity82%Grief and Loss80%Parenting and Child Communication78%The Myth of Perfection75%
People & Brands

Natalie Bassingthwaite

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120xPositive

Osher Günsberg

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85xPositive

Cam

person

30xPositive

Mark Byrne

person

25xMixed

Therapy

other

20xPositive

Pip

person

15xPositive

Medication

product

15xPositive

Neighbours

other

12xPositive

Meditation

other

12xPositive

X Factor

other

10xNeutral

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