The Hot Girl From Work Seems Interested But She Lives With Her Boyfriend
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Coach Corey Wayne addresses a common yet emotionally charged scenario: a man developing romantic interest in a coworker who is in a committed relationship. The episode centers on a 34-year-old clinical director who feels intense attraction to his co-manager, noting her flirtatious behaviors—extended eye contact, lingering conversations, and shared moments—while recognizing she lives with her boyfriend and he is now her superior. Corey emphasizes that while chemistry is natural, especially in high-proximity work environments, the man must exercise self-control and avoid emotional entanglement. He warns against becoming a 'Frankenstein Boyfriend Project'—a man used to fill emotional voids in an unhappy relationship—and stresses that any attention given to an unavailable woman signals to the universe that one is open to disloyalty, which can attract similar partners. Instead, Corey advocates for focusing on single, available women, maintaining professionalism, and using competition to create emotional tension that may prompt the woman to end her current relationship on her own. The episode concludes with a strong call to control the controllables: one’s own behavior, attention, and energy.
Focus your romantic attention only on women who are single, available, and ready to date.
Avoid giving extra attention to unavailable women—even if they show interest—to prevent emotional entanglement and self-sabotage.
Maintaining professionalism and emotional distance protects both your career and integrity.
Competition and being 'less available' can trigger a woman’s fear of losing you, potentially leading her to end her current relationship.
Giving attention to an unavailable woman sends a subconscious signal that you accept disloyalty, which can attract similar partners.
…and 3 more takeaways available in PodZeus
The Hot Coworker Dilemma: Attraction vs. Reality
“You have to focus and remember that you want somebody that's ready, willing, able, and open to dating.”
The Danger of the 'Frankenstein Boyfriend Project'
“You don't want to get into those situations. That's why it's better to keep it professional.”
The Power of Competition and Emotional Distance
“The more you hang around and give her your attention, you make it easy for her to stay in the relationship and keep you around as part of the Frankenstein Boyfriend Project.”
Self-Control as a Foundation for Integrity
Corey reframes the situation as a test of character and self-mastery. He emphasizes that true strength lies in resisting temptation, especially when power dynamics (like being a boss) are involved.
Final Advice: Focus on the Controllables
The episode closes with a call to action: control your energy, focus on available women, and let the universe handle the rest. Corey reinforces that you can't change someone else’s relationship—but you can control your response.
“She cheats on him, she'll cheat on you. That's a 95 certainty.”
“The more you hang around and give her your attention, you make it easy for her to stay in the relationship and keep you around as part of the Frankenstein Boyfriend Project.”
“You don't want to get into those situations. That's why it's better to keep it professional.”
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