What Not To Do If You're Good With Money

In this episode of 'Get the Hell Out of Debt,' hosts Erin Skye Kelly and Carrie Blakeney dive into a list of 10 things not to do if you're a woman who's good with money. They emphasize the importance of financial autonomy, self-honesty, and intentional spending habits. Key themes include refusing to let a partner manage your money without both a spreadsheet and emotional maturity, avoiding reward-based spending after minor inconveniences, and breaking generational patterns of using shopping as emotional regulation. The hosts stress the need to track spending—especially on Amazon—and to stop paying for outdated lifestyles or social comparisons. They also highlight the dangers of ignoring small, recurring expenses that compound over time, the importance of daily financial check-ins, and the necessity of not financially supporting adult children who are capable of managing their own money. The episode closes with a powerful message: confidence in money comes from action, not waiting to feel ready. The hosts encourage listeners to start small, be consistent, and treat financial health like any other skill—learned through practice and repetition.