JVN Talks Ulta Beauty World, Alex v. Alix, & The Upside of DoorDash Grandma

Getting Better with Jonathan Van Ness32mApril 20, 2026

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In this week's Monday Edit of 'Getting Better with Jonathan Van Ness,' JVN shares his vibrant experiences from Ulta Beauty World in Orlando, Florida, where he attended masterclasses, connected with industry friends like Deepika of Live Tinted and Matt Loves Hair, and even spotted Tina Knowles in person. He reflects on his personal growth, particularly confronting perfectionism linked to his neurodivergence and gay Midwestern upbringing, while also addressing his vocal fry habit. The episode dives into viral TikTok drama between Alex and Alex, the emotional weight of public feuds, and the surprising joy of DoorDash Grandma’s non-confrontational response to a political question at the White House—a moment JVN celebrates as a quiet win for the trans community. He also tackles listener questions about friendship ghosting, offering wisdom on self-compassion and releasing guilt. Highlights include a spirited spelling bee with challenging words like 'ayahuasca' and 'terpenes,' a heartfelt recommendation for Equip for eating disorder recovery, and glowing endorsements for French pharmacy skincare and CNP Laboratories lip balm. The episode closes with a teaser for an upcoming Wednesday episode featuring Dr. Baronda Montgomery and her groundbreaking book, 'When Trees Testify.'

Key Takeaways
1

Perfectionism is often rooted in deep emotional wounds and can be healed through self-compassion.

2

Letting go of friendships that no longer serve you is an act of self-respect, not failure.

3

Small moments of kindness—like DoorDash Grandma’s non-dogpiling response—can be powerful wins for marginalized communities.

4

Self-improvement isn't about discipline or restriction—it's about joy, connection, and authenticity.

5

Tools like Equip and Remy Nightguards offer accessible, clinically-backed support for mental and physical wellness.

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Chapters
0:00
5 min

Welcome to Ulta Beauty World & Paris Reflections

I literally yelled, Go sacred. I freaked out.

Highlight
5:00
5 min

Masterclass Anxiety & Perfectionism in Therapy

I was fighting for my life. I was like trying to give you a TED talk beat.

Highlight
10:00
5 min

TikTok Drama, Spelling Bees & Vocal Fry Confessions

The hosts dive into viral TikTok content, including the Alex v. Alex feud and a heartbreaking story of infidelity. They confess to struggling with vocal fry and hilariously fail at a spelling bee with words like 'ayahuasca' and 'terpenes,' highlighting their shared Midwestern pronunciation quirks.

15:00
5 min

The Power of Small Wins: DoorDash Grandma & Social Justice

What a low bar for a win for community when it's to have someone choose not to dogpile on you.

Highlight
20:00
5 min

Wellness Beyond Discipline: Self-Compassion & Recovery

JVN challenges the idea that wellness requires strictness or self-punishment. He promotes Equip, a virtual eating disorder program, and Remy Nightguards for jaw health, emphasizing that true self-improvement comes from care, not pressure.

High-Impact Quotes
What a low bar for a win for community when it's to have someone choose not to dogpile on you.
Jonathan Van Ness24:38
Viral: 90.0
What you resist persists, what you accept flows.
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Viral: 88.0
I literally yelled, Go sacred. I freaked out.
Jonathan Van Ness1:15
Viral: 85.0
Speakers

Host

Jonathan Van Ness
Topics Discussed
Trans Community Visibility and Small Wins92%Perfectionism and Neurodivergence90%Self-Compassion in Personal Growth88%Friendship Ghosting and Emotional Release85%Wellness Beyond Discipline82%Beauty Industry Events and Networking80%TikTok Culture and Viral Drama70%Vocal Fry and Voice Health65%
People & Brands

Jonathan Van Ness

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Chris

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Ulta Beauty World

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French Pharmacies

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DoorDash Grandma

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Rachel Ziegler

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Michelle Kwan

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CNP Laboratories

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Remy Nightguards

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Americans United for Separation of Church and State

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