Loving Hard vs. Loving Properly Ft. Teedra Moses
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In this powerful three-part episode of 'Good Moms Bad Choices,' hosts Erica and Mila welcome Grammy-nominated artist Teedra Moses for an intimate and transformative conversation on motherhood, self-love, and reinvention. Moses reflects on her journey as a young single mom of twins at 19, framing motherhood as a raw, instinctive 'young person sport' that taught her resilience, courage, and the profound truth that her children are watching everything she does. She challenges the notion of loving hard at all costs, advocating instead for loving properly—centered on self-worth, authenticity, and personal wholeness. Her creative process, rooted in solitude, cannabis, and unfiltered truth, becomes a metaphor for living boldly. As she prepares to release her album 'Grown Woman Realness,' Moses redefines romantic love in her 50s as fun, intentional, and free from obligation, celebrating aging not as decline but as a deepening of wisdom, beauty, and power. The conversation evolves into a playful yet profound exploration of sexual agency, authenticity, and spiritual awakening, culminating in a tarot reading of the Tower card—symbolizing necessary breakdowns that lead to rebirth. In the final segment, Moses reaffirms the importance of self-awareness, embracing imperfection, and waiting for genuine connection on one’s own terms. She praises the podcast as 'the Lord's work' for creating a safe space where mothers can be unapologetically real, while also encouraging listeners to support her art through merch and live shows. The episode closes with hosts promoting their upcoming Costa Rica retreat and a series of sponsored podcast promos, underscoring the value of community, creativity, and authentic storytelling across platforms.
Loving properly begins with loving yourself first—your worth is not defined by relationships.
Motherhood at a young age is a raw, instinctive journey that shapes resilience and identity, not a failure of timing.
Aging is not a loss but a deepening of wisdom, beauty, and power when embraced authentically.
True self-acceptance comes from knowing yourself deeply and being open to transformation, even through chaos.
Creative genius and personal truth thrive in solitude and safety, not in performative or crowded spaces.
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The Young Mom's Truth: Twins, Instinct, and Survival
“I think it's a young person sport. I think children... Like having babies is a young person sport? Yeah, I think it's a young person sport. I'm going to tell you why. You don't fucking think. You just do. It's all instinct.”
Loving Hard vs. Loving Properly: The Emotional Cost of Unbalanced Love
“I think a lot of mothers, a lot of our mothers don't have an experience loving themselves and so sometimes you can't teach what you don't know.”
The Creative Process: Solitude, Smoke, and Soul
Moses details her deeply personal creative process—writing alone, smoking cannabis, singing to herself in front of mirrors, and needing total privacy. She describes creating as an intimate, vulnerable act, like 'having your pussy open,' and emphasizes that collaboration only works after she’s fully grounded in her own truth.
Romantic Love at 50: Fun, Freedom, and No Obligations
“I want us to want to be together. I want us to choose it every single day. I don't want to be your obligation. I don't want you to be my obligation.”
Embracing the Power of Aging
“I'm better with time, you know? I get wisdom and if you keep yourself up, you still look good. You know what I'm saying? Like, I don't see the bad thing in aging.”
“You can't start a singing career in your 40s. What the fuck are you talking about? They won't even let you continue. Who the fuck made the rules?”
“I didn't care for myself to have myself in that situation. Not getting pregnant. That's not the part. But for this person. Do you understand what I'm saying? This person that you didn't feel safe with this person, so how are you going to bring a child into the world?”
“I want us to want to be together. I want us to choose it every single day. I don't want to be your obligation. I don't want you to be my obligation.”
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