310 - Inappropriate Jokes

Grits With a Side of Murder52mMay 2, 2026

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A 19-year-old man named Brian Cohey Jr., diagnosed with ADHD and high-functioning autism, meticulously planned and executed the murder of Warren Bruce Barnes, a homeless man known as 'The Reading Man' in Grand Junction, Colorado. After years of disturbing behaviors—including making inappropriate jokes, collecting serial killer statistics, and killing a cat—Brian built a kill kit, scoured the internet for murder logistics, and wore a Michael Myers costume while driving at night to find a victim. On February 28, 2021, he stabbed Barnes to death near a railroad underpass, dismembered him, and brought the head and hands home, storing them in a plastic bag in his closet. When his mother discovered the remains, she called police, leading to Brian’s calm, detailed confession. Despite claiming mental illness, he was found guilty of first-degree murder and sentenced to life without parole—his chilling lack of remorse and premeditation proving he fully understood right from wrong. The episode exposes how a child with profound behavioral red flags, including a fascination with violence and a history of dangerous planning, can slip through the cracks despite parental awareness and therapy. The story raises urgent questions about how society handles neurodivergent youth with callous, unemotional traits, especially when their behaviors are dismissed as 'just a phase' or 'part of being different.

Key Takeaways
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Brian Cohey Jr. planned his murder of Warren Barnes for months, using a kill kit, researching murder logistics online, and wearing a Michael Myers costume to hunt for a victim.

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He admitted to killing a cat at age 16 by strangling it, playing with the body, and hiding it for three days—behavior that foreshadowed his later crime.

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His mother discovered the severed head and hands in a plastic bag in his closet and called police, leading to his calm, detailed confession.

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Despite claiming mental illness, Brian showed full awareness of right and wrong, remembered every detail of the crime, and was found guilty of first-degree murder.

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The court rejected his insanity defense because he was coherent, remembered everything, and had planned the murder over months—proof of premeditation.

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Chapters
0:00
2 min

Welcome & Introductions

The hosts welcome listeners and introduce the guest, Grace, who is joining her sister Kirsten. They share drinks and set a casual tone, joking about a whiskey bottle with angel wings.

2:00
3 min

Brian Cohey's Early Life & Diagnosis

The story begins with Brian Cohey Jr.'s birth in 2002 and his diagnosis with ADHD at age five. His parents struggled to get help, and he was later moved to a special education school for children with disabilities.

5:00
5 min

Disturbing Behaviors & Obsessions

As Brian entered middle and high school, his behavior became increasingly inappropriate—making racist jokes, drawing guns, and obsessively collecting serial killer statistics. He kept a detailed notebook on killers like Ted Bundy and Hitler.

10:00
5 min

The Kill Kit & Online Research

At age 16, Brian built a kill kit with zip ties, knives, and shovels. His parents found it and forced him to destroy it, but he immediately started making another. He also Googled how long it takes for a body to sink and what it feels like to stab someone.

15:00
5 min

The Murder of Warren Barnes

On February 28, 2021, Brian murdered 69-year-old Warren Barnes, a homeless man known as 'The Reading Man.' He stabbed him near a railroad underpass, dismembered him, and brought the head and hands home.

High-Impact Quotes
I have less emotions than normal people. I am curious to see what normal amounts of emotions feel like.
Brian Cohey Jr.15:28
Viral: 85.0
He was not in touch with reality. No. in that part because they gave him life without the possibility of parole.
Host48:28
Viral: 78.0
I wanted to know what it felt like to kill a person. I mean, what's crazy is like, I think every person has felt that way. Not like intentionally.
Host37:36
Viral: 76.0
Speakers

Hosts

ChandlerKirstenGrace

Guest

Chandler
Topics Discussed
serial killer behavior95%premeditated murder92%psychopathy in youth90%autism and violence90%neurodivergence and criminal behavior88%kill kit85%parental denial in mental health83%ADHD and behavioral red flags80%
People & Brands

Brian Cohey Jr.

person

12xNegative

Grand Junction

place

10xNeutral

Warren Bruce Barnes

person

8xNegative

Terry Cohey

person

6xNeutral

Brian Cohey Sr.

person

5xNeutral

Reddit

product

4xNeutral

Michael Myers

other

3xNeutral

Rain Man

media

2xNeutral

Film Rise

organization

2xPositive

Safeway

organization

2xNeutral

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