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Grits With a Side of Murder57mJune 6, 2026
AI-Generated Summary

The host and guest dive into a chilling true crime case from 2020 in Hollywood Hills, where Dr. Amy Hartwick, a successful therapist and former fire eater, was found dead on her balcony after a violent attack. The episode unfolds with chaotic energy, punctuated by the host’s signature humor and the real-time chaos of a leaking toilet and a barking dog. The central mystery centers on her ex-boyfriend, Gareth Pursehouse, who had a restraining order against him that expired just weeks before the murder. Surveillance footage reveals Gareth sneaking through multiple backyards four hours before the incident, wearing navy tighties and carrying a syringe filled with pure nicotine—lethal in small doses. The trial, delayed by COVID, concluded with a guilty verdict for first-degree murder with the 'lying in wait' special circumstance, resulting in life without parole. The prosecution argued he waited to kill her after reuniting at a porn industry awards show, where she had ignored him. The defense claimed he only wanted to talk and that her death was an accident, but the evidence—her defensive wounds, the syringe, and his obsessive behavior—overwhelmed the defense. The episode ends with a darkly comedic yet sobering reflection on how a restraining order’s expiration can leave victims vulnerable to predators who’ve spent years planning revenge.

Key Takeaways
1

Gareth Pursehouse was convicted of first-degree murder with 'lying in wait' special circumstance after sneaking into Amy Hartwick's home four hours before her death, using a syringe filled with pure nicotine.

2

Amy Hartwick had a restraining order against Gareth due to severe domestic violence, including a fractured eye socket, but the order expired in 2020, leaving her vulnerable.

3

The syringe found on the balcony contained pure nicotine—lethal in small doses—and was not urine or a drug, making it a precise, calculated weapon.

4

Gareth was seen on security footage hopping fences and covering cameras with gloves, indicating premeditation and surveillance of the property.

5

Amy documented the confrontation at the X-Biz Awards in an email to herself, describing Gareth as 'malicious,' 'highly intelligent,' and obsessed with harming her.

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Chapters
0:42
2 min

Welcome to the Chaos: Leaky Toilets and Salted Watermelon Whiskey

The episode opens with the hosts in full comedic mode, drinking salted watermelon old smoky whiskey, discussing a leaking toilet that ruined their recording setup, and joking about the desk smelling like 'rotten crotch.' They set the tone with absurd humor and real-life podcasting chaos.

2:57
2 min

The Real Story: A Murder in Hollywood Hills

The hosts transition into the true crime story, introducing Amy Hartwick, a 38-year-old therapist and former fire eater, who was found dead on her balcony after a violent attack. The narrative begins with the 911 call from her roommate, Michael Herman.

5:10
4 min

The Scene: Blood, Urine, and a Syringe

The police arrive to find Amy’s body on the concrete below the balcony, a pool of urine, a rumpled bed, and a syringe with a brown-yellow liquid. The roommate, Michael, is panicked but not a suspect. The syringe is later confirmed to contain pure nicotine.

9:03
6 min

The Ex-Boyfriend: Gareth Pursehouse and the Expiring Restraining Order

The hosts reveal Gareth Pursehouse, Amy’s ex-boyfriend with a restraining order from 2012 that expired in 2020. He was seen at the X-Biz Awards, where he had a public meltdown upon seeing her, confirming his obsession.

14:44
5 min

The Surveillance: Four Hours of Waiting

Security footage shows Gareth entering the neighborhood four hours before the murder, hopping fences and covering cameras with gloves. The timestamp of 8:53 p.m. becomes a key clue in the timeline.

High-Impact Quotes
Let me tell you, you can eat a bag of motherfucking dicks. All the bags. Multiple bags.
Tammy54:55
The jury deliberated for two days and they come back with first degree murder by means of lying in wait.
Tammy54:22
So the syringe and they jab them and shoot it and they kill them. That's it. Wow. Easy peasy.
Tammy33:06
Speakers

Host

Tammy

Guest

Kelsey
Topics Discussed
true crime95%domestic violence90%murder trial88%restraining orders85%ex-boyfriend revenge82%nicotine poisoning80%security cameras75%therapy and trauma70%
People & Brands

Amy Hartwick

person

45xNeutral

Gareth Pursehouse

person

38xNegative

LAPD

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22xNeutral

Michael Herman

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15xNeutral

Kelsey

person

12xNeutral

X-Biz Awards

other

10xNeutral

Drew Carey

person

8xNeutral

Los Angeles County Jail

organization

6xNeutral

Patreon

organization

5xPositive

Total Wine

organization

2xNeutral

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