Tragic end to NT search, the Bondi royal commission + what is love?

Hack31mApril 30, 2026

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The tragic discovery of a five-year-old girl's body near Alice Springs has sent shockwaves across Australia, with police hunting a 47-year-old man with a violent past and no digital footprint—forcing investigators to revert to pre-digital policing methods. The case underscores the ongoing crisis of Indigenous child safety and the urgent need for systemic reform. Simultaneously, the interim report from the Royal Commission into Antisemitism following the Bondi terror attack reveals critical gaps in national security and counter-terrorism preparedness, while pushing for urgent, consistent gun reform across all states. Amid this national trauma, author Dee Salman offers a radical rethinking of love in her new book, *It's Not Love Actually*, arguing that society has dangerously prioritized romantic relationships over self-worth, friendship, and personal growth. Drawing from her own experiences of sexual assault, a life-altering car accident, and a high-profile relationship with AFL star Darcy Moore, Salman reveals how true love often lies in the support of friends and the deep bond with oneself—not in romantic partnership. Her message is clear: you don’t need a partner to be whole, and centering yourself is the first step to attracting healthy, fulfilling relationships.

Key Takeaways
1

Romantic love is not the only or even the most important form of love—friendship and self-love are equally vital for emotional health.

2

The absence of a romantic partner does not equate to personal failure; being single can be a powerful, intentional choice for growth.

3

A car accident that left Dee Salman unable to walk revealed that her boyfriend was absent during her recovery, while friends showed up consistently—proving that real love is shown through action, not just words.

4

Many women internalize the belief that they’re ‘broken’ for not being in a relationship, but this narrative is harmful and perpetuates dependency on men for identity.

5

Sexual assault survivors may not recognize abuse in the moment—Dee Salman only realized her experiences were non-consensual years later, highlighting the need for trauma-informed education.

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Chapters
0:00
1 min

Opening: National Trauma and the State of Love

The episode opens with a raw, emotional tone, setting the stage for two major national tragedies—child loss in the NT and the aftermath of the Bondi terror attack—while introducing Dee Salman’s book as a counterpoint to societal obsession with romantic love.

1:00
4 min

Tragic Discovery of Kuminjai Little Baby

I say to the family of Jefferson Lewis that we believe he's murdered this child. Do not assist him. Get him to the police station and we'll look after him. And I say to Jefferson Lewis, we're coming for you.

Highlight
5:00
5 min

Royal Commission into Antisemitism: Interim Findings

We can only hope that the recalcitrant states and territory will lift their game and come on board. It's not too late for them to do that.

Highlight
10:00
10 min

Dee Salman’s Journey: From Self-Doubt to Self-Love

It wasn't until she used the words that you understood that they related to you.

Highlight
20:00
10 min

The Car Accident That Changed Everything

I was more hurt by that experience with him than I was about the idea that I might never walk again.

Highlight
High-Impact Quotes
I say to the family of Jefferson Lewis that we believe he's murdered this child. Do not assist him. Get him to the police station and we'll look after him. And I say to Jefferson Lewis, we're coming for you.
Martin Dole3:44
Viral: 88.0
The longest relationship you'll ever have in your life is the relationship with yourself.
Dee Salman25:27
Viral: 85.0
I was more hurt by that experience with him than I was about the idea that I might never walk again.
Dee Salman19:37
Viral: 82.0
Speakers

Host

Dave Marchese

Guest

Dee Salman
Topics Discussed
indigenous child safety95%royal commission into antisemitism90%gun reform australia88%self-love and self-worth87%love and relationships85%consent and sexual assault83%digital footprint and policing78%high-profile relationships70%
People & Brands

Dee Salman

person

18xPositive

Triple J

media

8xNeutral

Jefferson Lewis

person

6xNegative

Darcy Moore

person

5xNeutral

Kuminjai Little Baby

person

4xNeutral

Martin Dole

person

3xNeutral

ABC News

media

3xNeutral

Virginia Bell

person

2xNeutral

Gun Control Australia

organization

2xPositive

Executive Council of Australian Jewry

organization

2xPositive

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