More Happier: Are People Socializing More? Plus, Things That Have Achieved Perfection

Gretchen Rubin and Elizabeth Craft explore whether people are truly socializing more post-COVID, uncovering a subtle but meaningful shift in social behavior that feels both personal and widespread. Elizabeth shares her own surge in social activity—from spontaneous bad wine tastings to a new women’s hiking group—while Gretchen reflects on how her own preferences, like a deep appreciation for traditional music and perfectly formed objects, reveal a pattern of finding joy in timeless, well-crafted things. The conversation pivots to a fascinating list of items that have achieved 'perfect and final form'—like the tuxedo, blue jeans, saltines, and the lunchbox—highlighting how their enduring design feels both complete and satisfying. The episode suggests that social reconnection isn’t just about more events, but about a cultural recalibration: plans are easier to make, less draining to follow through, and more likely to happen because people are more willing to say yes. This creates a feedback loop of connection, making socializing feel natural again—like a well-designed object that just works. The episode ends with a powerful insight: the most meaningful changes often aren’t dramatic shifts, but small, consistent habits that build momentum. Whether it’s a Friday morning hike, a playlist of madrigals, or a tin of cookies, the joy comes from things that feel complete, intentional, and deeply familiar.