Disciplining Josiah

In this episode of Mojo in the Morning, host Kev opens up about the challenges of disciplining his 13-year-old son Josiah during spring break, when he granted him nearly unlimited freedom—staying up until 3 a.m., playing games, and using devices freely. When Kev tried to enforce a bedtime and shut down the devices, Josiah responded with defiance and attitude, triggering a moment of intense frustration where Kev admitted he wanted to physically discipline him, recalling his own father’s harsh methods. The conversation evolves into a broader discussion about parenting teens, with callers and a child therapist weighing in. One caller shares a strategy of using physical activity—like the 'Drew Heels' dance—as a constructive outlet for pent-up energy. Another emphasizes the importance of transitional warnings and mutual respect. The therapist highlights that at 13, Josiah’s focus is on peer connection, and parental demands can feel like barriers to social belonging. Kev reflects on his own upbringing and the emotional toll of parenting through this turbulent stage, acknowledging the need for balance between firmness and empathy.