"My Son Is In His 20's And Just Bought A Home.. There's No Excuse"!

Opinions Matter with Adrian & Jeremy50mMay 31, 2026
AI-Generated Summary

A fiery debate erupts on *Opinions Matter with Adrian & Jeremy* after a caller, Dave Mack, declares there's 'no excuse' for young people not buying homes in Ireland—citing his 26-year-old son and girlfriend who secured a €245,000 apartment in Balbriggan through three years of frugal living and extra work. The hosts and callers explode into a national conversation about privilege, sacrifice, and the myth of universal homeownership. While Adrian and Jeremy passionately defend Dave’s message—arguing that hard work and discipline can overcome Ireland’s housing crisis—others like Sarah, a 37-year-old building a 25-square-meter 'log cabin' as her dream home, expose the brutal reality: not everyone has the luxury of choice. The episode reveals a deep societal rift: one side sees homeownership as a matter of personal responsibility, while the other sees it as a structural failure where only the privileged can afford to play the game. The climax comes when Amanda challenges the middle-class lens of the hosts, reminding listeners that for many, saving means choosing between rent and groceries—not holidays and new phones. The episode ends not with consensus, but with a raw, uncomfortable truth: the dream of owning a home is still possible for some, but for most, it’s a privilege, not a promise.

Key Takeaways
1

If you save €1,000 a month for three years, you can afford a €245,000 home in Ireland—proven by a 26-year-old couple who did it without parental help.

2

Living at home to save for a deposit is not a 'win'—it’s a necessity for many, not a moral achievement.

3

The Irish housing crisis isn’t just about government failure—it’s about unequal access to sacrifice: not everyone can afford to skip holidays, new clothes, or nights out.

4

A 37-year-old woman in the episode built a 25m² log cabin as her 'dream home'—proof that the dream is shrinking for many.

5

One caller who lived in a van for six months to afford rent now owns multiple properties, proving that extreme sacrifice can pay off.

…and 3 more takeaways available in PodZeus

Chapters
0:00
2 min

The Call That Lit the Fuse

My son is 26 and he and his girlfriend picked up their keys to their new apartment on Saturday. Neither of them have massive jobs, but they have saved for everything for the last three years. No fancy holidays. They took extra work on at the weekends and bought a two-bed apartment in Balbrigan last week for €245,000. €245,000 for an apartment in Balbrigan. And he goes on to say, and tell your listeners that they didn't get one handout from us or her parents. Hard work and saving got them to where they are. If you're moaning that your kids can't afford to buy somewhere, tell them to save better, work harder, and be realistic of what you can afford. No more excuses!

Highlight
2:00
3 min

The Snobbery Backlash

Oh, Bob Brigham! I wouldn't live in Bob Brigham! Oh, that wouldn't be my first choice. Oh, two-bedroom department! Couldn't swing a cat there! It's called a starter home. Okay? That's what it is. It's called a starter home.

5:00
3 min

The Regret of the Traveler

I left Dublin at 18. I brought in Europe, Singapore, Thailand, travelled America. Never once thought of the future. Never once just lived in the moment. Back to Dublin at 35, I had the best life anyone could imagine for 17 years and now I'm paying the price for that.

Highlight
8:20
3 min

The Reality of the 37-Year-Old Builder

I'm nearly 37 years old. And this is the best I'm going to have, unless there's some form of an absolute miracle. It's a tiny 25 square metre glorified shed, basically.

Highlight
11:40
3 min

The Parent Who Refused to Help

I took out alone. You know, to get my son over. Trevor's argument was he wants his kids to stand on their own two feet and... Yeah, well so does everybody but you get them all with a fucking starting line, you know, there's nothing wrong with helping them out.

High-Impact Quotes
I left Dublin at 18. I brought in Europe, Singapore, Thailand, travelled America. Never once thought of the future. Never once just lived in the moment. Back to Dublin at 35, I had the best life anyone could imagine for 17 years and now I'm paying the price for that.
Eddie28:40
I know myself, I am nearly 37 years old. And this is the best I'm going to have, unless there's some form of an absolute miracle. It's a tiny 25 square metre glorified shed, basically.
Sarah24:20
You're presuming the people you're talking about can afford to save and not travel. No, they're looking to keep food on the table.
Amanda49:31
Speakers

Hosts

Adrian KennedyJeremy Dixon

Guests

Dave MackDebbieTrevorJamieDaraEmma HoldenEddieJoeMartinBrianJohnAmandaDarren
Topics Discussed
homeownership in ireland95%housing crisis ireland92%saving for a house90%young adults and housing88%starter home85%parental financial help80%frugal living75%mental health and housing70%
People & Brands

Adrian Kennedy

person

45xPositive

Jeremy Dixon

person

42xPositive

Balbriggan

place

18xNeutral

Dave Mack

person

12xNeutral

Sarah

person

8xNeutral

Eddie

person

7xNeutral

Joe

person

6xPositive

Amanda

person

5xNeutral

John

person

5xPositive

Shopify

brand

4xPositive

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