2030 - INTERVIEW with Elise Benson of Before the 90 Days

In this special episode of Pink Shade, host MP sits down with Elise Benson from Before the 90 Days for an intimate and candid conversation about her journey on the show, her whirlwind romance with Joshua, and the emotional rollercoaster of meeting him in Australia after connecting via Instagram. Elise reveals how she was unexpectedly added to the season last minute, despite initial press photos excluding her, and shares the surreal experience of traveling 39 hours across multiple flights to meet Joshua, only to arrive to a rental apartment shared with his friend Nat. She reflects on the awkwardness of not meeting Joshua’s parents, the lack of a clear future plan, and the emotional toll of isolation during her two-week stay. The conversation dives into her feelings of betrayal when she discovered Joshua’s living situation and the tension at a bar where she confronted perceived flirtation between him and Nat. Despite her outburst, Elise remains reflective and self-aware, acknowledging her poor handling of the moment while standing by her instincts. She also discusses her personal growth, her journey with self-love, and her desire to build a meaningful life with Joshua—though the future remains uncertain. The episode closes with a heartfelt reflection on the power of authenticity, the complexity of relationships, and the importance of being seen beyond stereotypes, especially as a 'hot model' with deep emotional depth.