Cat Clyde is done with apologizing for being a woman

Q with Tom Power10mMay 1, 2026

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In this episode of Q, guest host Garvia Bailey speaks with Canadian songwriter Cat Clyde about her new album 'Mud, Blood, Bone' and the powerful song 'Man's World,' which confronts the societal expectation for women to constantly apologize, accommodate, and give endlessly—especially in a world structured around male norms. Clyde reflects on the physical and emotional toll of living in a female body in a patriarchal system, from hormonal cycles disrupting rigid schedules to the exhausting performance of being 'polite' and 'pleasing.' She shares how writing the song became a form of self-liberation, helping her process anger and reclaim agency by choosing to honor her cycle and define her own identity. The conversation also highlights the importance of male allies, as Clyde describes her bandmates—men—who proudly support her message and stand in solidarity with women’s experiences. Ultimately, the episode is a raw, introspective exploration of feminine resilience, self-worth, and the courage to stop apologizing for simply existing as a woman.

Key Takeaways
1

Stop apologizing for being a woman—your existence is valid without justification.

2

Safety and self-worth come from within, not from external validation or constant giving.

3

Honor your body’s natural rhythms, like your menstrual cycle, as a form of self-respect and empowerment.

4

Men can be powerful allies in feminist movements—support and solidarity matter.

5

Writing can be a healing act: songs are often messages to your future self, not just for an audience.

Chapters
0:00
2 min

The Weight of Apology: A Feminine Reality

I give myself away. I give all the very best so I can have a home, so I can take a rest.

Highlight
2:00
3 min

Living in a Female Body in a Male-Structured World

Clyde discusses the daily frustrations of being a woman—feeling unsafe, having to mask physical and emotional changes, and navigating a 24-hour world that doesn’t account for the 28-day female cycle.

5:00
4 min

From Anger to Empowerment: The Healing Power of Song

I get to decide what kind of woman I want to show up as. And that's okay.

Highlight
9:00
1 min

Solidarity and the Role of Male Allies

Clyde shares her bandmates’ supportive response to her message, emphasizing that many men want to uplift women and reject toxic masculinity, highlighting the importance of inclusive solidarity.

High-Impact Quotes
I get to decide what kind of woman I want to show up as. And that's okay.
Cat Clyde6:23
Viral: 90.0
I give myself away. I give all the very best so I can have a home, so I can take a rest.
Cat Clyde7:31
Viral: 85.0
Safety comes from within and I can give myself that.
Cat Clyde8:41
Viral: 80.0
Speakers

Host

Tom Power

Guest

Cat Clyde
Topics Discussed
Feminine Identity and Self-Worth95%Menstrual Cycle and Female Health90%Emotional Labor in Women88%Feminism and Male Allyship85%Art as Healing and Self-Discovery80%Patriarchy and Systemic Inequality75%Music as Social Commentary72%Performance and Authenticity70%
People & Brands

Cat Clyde

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18xPositive

Garvia Bailey

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8xPositive

Tom Power

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6xPositive

Man's World

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6xPositive

Mud, Blood, Bone

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5xPositive

Putin and the Apartment Bombs

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2xNeutral

Shopify

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2xNeutral

BBC

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2xNeutral

Helena Merriman

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The History Bureau

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