Dear Banya: Fire Emoji

Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley & Tanya Rad25mApril 2, 2026

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In this episode of Scrubbing In with Becca Tilley and Tanya Rad, the hosts dive into a heartfelt 'Dear Banya' segment addressing three listener questions. The first concerns a woman who recently ended a six-year relationship and is struggling with her ex moving on quickly, despite being happy for him. The hosts emphasize that her pain stems from not being ready to see him with someone else, not from unresolved feelings, and encourage her to embrace her new solo lifestyle and 'swim in her lane.' The second query involves a woman receiving fire emoji comments from an ex on her Instagram selfies, prompting a discussion on whether to inform her current partner. The hosts advise discretion: if the comments are public, ignore them; if private, casually mention them to maintain transparency without drama. The final question is about choosing a baby name, with the listener torn between 'Blair' and 'Romy.' The hosts debate the names, noting cultural associations and popularity, ultimately leaning toward 'Romy' while playfully suggesting creative blends like 'Rare' or 'Blomi.' Throughout, the tone remains warm, humorous, and supportive, reinforcing themes of self-worth, communication, and embracing life’s transitions.

Key Takeaways
1

Your pain after a breakup may stem from not being ready to see your ex move on, not from still loving them.

2

When an ex comments on your social media, assess whether it's public or private—act accordingly to protect your current relationship.

3

Choosing a baby name is deeply personal; consider cultural connotations, popularity, and family significance.

4

Embrace your solo journey—living alone can be empowering and joyful, not lonely.

5

Transparency with your partner about past interactions is key, but avoid drama by keeping it casual and low-key.

Chapters
0:00
5 min

Sponsor Breaks & Podcast Teasers

Multiple iHeartRadio podcast promos air, including The Clifford Show, The Girlfriends, Thanks Dad, Sports Slice, and others, each with unique branding and guest highlights.

5:00
5 min

April Fool's & Prank Culture

The hosts reflect on April Fool's Day, discussing the line between harmless fun and harmful pranks, using a viral Gypsy Rose and Pete Davidson prank as an example.

10:00
7 min

Dear Banya: Ex Moving On Too Fast

You're not upset that you're not with him. You're upset that he moved on.

Highlight
17:00
6 min

Dear Banya: Ex's Fire Emoji Comments

If it's private, be like, I don't know. He keeps DMing me. Just want to show you like, I have no, right there.

Highlight
23:00
8 min

Dear Banya: Baby Name Dilemma

Romy and Blair, rare? Not good. Rare and Ren is so cute.

Highlight
High-Impact Quotes
Just give it a shot. But if you ever reach a point where you're banging your head against the wall and it doesn't feel fun anymore, it's okay to quit.
Will Ferrell (via quote)36:58
Viral: 90.0
If he becomes a cop, you're now married to his mom.
Mark26:04
Viral: 88.0
You're not upset that you're not with him. You're upset that he moved on.
Becca Tilley5:34
Viral: 85.0
Speakers

Hosts

Becca TilleyTanya Rad
Topics Discussed
post-breakup emotional processing92%social media boundaries with exes88%communication in romantic partnerships87%career change in relationships85%self-worth and personal growth82%baby name selection80%gender dynamics in relationships75%prank culture and emotional boundaries70%
People & Brands

Becca Tilley

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12xPositive

iHeartRadio

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12xPositive

Tanya Rad

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11xPositive

Mark

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Taylor Swift

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8xPositive

Clifford Taylor IV

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6xPositive

Apple Podcasts

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6xPositive

The Clifford Show

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6xPositive

TikTok Podcast Network

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6xPositive

Thanks Dad

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4xPositive

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