How Do I Respond to a Confused Four-Year-Old?
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This episode of #STRask tackles three challenging spiritual conversations: responding to a confused four-year-old about differing beliefs on God, engaging with members of Mormon and Jehovah's Witness faiths, and navigating conversations with Christians who identify with Unitarian Universalism. The hosts emphasize wisdom, humility, and clarity over persuasion when addressing young children, advocating for simple, descriptive statements about faith rather than debate. For discussions with adherents of non-traditional Christian groups, they highlight the spiritual and cultural barriers—such as demonic deception, strong communal pressures, and semantic differences in terminology—that make evangelism difficult. They stress the importance of prayer, clarity in communication, and focusing on truth rather than winning arguments. With Unitarian Universalists, they recommend beginning with questions about Jesus and the Bible to uncover inconsistencies in beliefs, using Scripture to challenge universalist views. The overarching theme is that transformation is ultimately God’s work, not human effort, and that believers should prioritize truth-telling and relational integrity above all.
When talking to young children about faith, use descriptive language (e.g., 'I think there is one God') rather than persuasive arguments to avoid conflict and preserve relationships.
Engaging with Mormons, Jehovah's Witnesses, or Unitarian Universalists requires clarity over persuasion—explain your beliefs clearly and avoid using terms with different meanings.
Spiritual warfare is real: demonic deception and strong cultural pressures make conversion difficult, so prayer is essential.
Ask questions to uncover beliefs before challenging them—especially about Jesus and the Bible—to create space for honest dialogue.
The goal is not to convince, but to clarify truth so the Holy Spirit can work in the heart of the listener.
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Responding to a Confused Four-Year-Old
“At four years old, it might be best not to press the issue and just say, well, your father has this understanding. It's something that your dad and I disagree on.”
Spiritual and Cultural Barriers with Mormons and Jehovah's Witnesses
“You cannot set them free. Only God can set them free. So just focus on giving them the truth of the gospel and helping them understand exactly what you're saying.”
Engaging Unitarian Universalists: Clarity Over Conviction
“Make your goal clarity, not persuasion. And if you do that, that also takes a lot of the pressure off of you and takes a lot of pressure off of them.”
The Power of Truth and the Holy Spirit
The episode concludes with reflections on the limits of human effort in evangelism. The hosts share a powerful anecdote about a Mormon missionary who chose loyalty to his church over truth. They affirm that while we cannot change hearts, we can faithfully present the truth, and the Holy Spirit will do the rest. They encourage listeners to keep asking questions and showing the real Jesus.
“What does it profit a man if he gains the whole world and he loses his soul? And what will a man give in exchange for his soul?”
“You cannot set them free. Only God can set them free. So just focus on giving them the truth of the gospel and helping them understand exactly what you're saying.”
“If I were to convince you that what the Mormon church teaches is wrong and what we are teaching is true, would you go with what's true or would you go with the church? He thought about it for a minute... I'd go with the church.”
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Amy Hall
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