1414 - James is Into Prostate Play

In this candid episode of Strictly Anonymous Confessions, host Kathy welcomes James, a straight, married man from Perth, Australia, who shares his journey into prostate play and anal pleasure. James reveals he discovered pleasure in his prostate as a teenager, initially experimenting with household items like deodorant and condoms before progressing to dedicated toys. Despite societal stigma and fear of being labeled gay, he remained confident in his heterosexuality and eventually disclosed his interest to his wife during their long-distance relationship—she was immediately accepting. The couple spent two years building trust and training her in anal play, emphasizing the importance of patience and communication. James describes the intense, full-body experience of prostate orgasms, which he now regularly achieves with his wife’s help, especially using a wand on the perineum. He offers practical advice for others, including prepping with a clean bowels, using water-based lube, and focusing on rhythm and sensation. The episode also touches on his use of anxiety medication, which affects his ability to climax, and the couple’s dynamic around pegging and mutual pleasure. Kathy reinforces the message that prostate play is not a gateway to homosexuality and encourages open communication in relationships.