FEELING THINGS - Is Your Phone Making You Less Attractive? Also, Your Texting Habits Reveal More Than You Think
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A surprising new study reveals that simply using your phone during social interactions—what the hosts call 'fubbing'—can make you seem less warm, competent, and ultimately less attractive to others. In a candid moment, one host shares how her ex-boyfriend pointed out that she was often on her phone, which made her feel unattractive in their relationship. The episode dives into how texting habits, especially the subtle differences in how we type 'okay' or use emojis, reveal our emotional state and intentions. A single period after 'okay' signals closure and firmness, while a simple 'K' can come across as annoyed. The hosts also explore the psychological impact of dressing up—even for work—finding that putting on a 'put-together' outfit boosts confidence and performance. They end with a food safety PSA about frozen peas: they’re not safe to eat raw and must be cooked first, a revelation that shocked even the hosts. Finally, they reflect on the power of small, unplanned moments—like dropping by a friend’s house—to deepen real connection in a world of digital distraction.
Using your phone during face-to-face interactions (fubbing) reduces perceptions of warmth, competence, and attractiveness.
Texting 'okay.' with a period signals closure and firmness, while 'K' alone can come across as annoyed or dismissive.
Cooking frozen peas before eating them is a food safety must—raw frozen peas can carry harmful bacteria.
Dressing up for work—even in casual roles—boosts confidence, performance, and self-perception.
Unplanned, phone-free visits to friends strengthen real-world relationships more than scheduled meetups.
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Podcast Promos & Intro
The episode opens with a series of iHeartRadio podcast promos, including 'Hey Jonas' by the Jonas Brothers, 'Humor Me with Robert Smigel and Friends', 'Deep Cover The Family Man', and 'Rebel Spirit Season 2'. These serve as standard ad breaks before the main content.
Gratitude, Books, and Morning Routines
Amy shares her journey with Kristen Hanna’s 'Winter Garden', initially struggling with the slow start but now deeply invested. Kat reflects on her gratitude box and a listener gift for her mom. They discuss their morning routines, including coffee runs and early bedtimes, with Kat admitting she’s been dressing up for work even when not on camera.
Texting 'Okay.' and Emotional Subtext
“Okay. Period is you're firm. You're closing the convo.”
Fubbing and Social Attractiveness
“Fubbing significantly reduces perceptions of warmth and competence, which in turn negatively affected perceptions of likability, social attractiveness, and interactions and intention.”
Dressing Up and Confidence
They reflect on the power of dressing up—even for work at home. Kat shares she only needs two outfits a week because she sees different people on different days. Amy notes how dressing up boosts confidence and performance, even in private settings.
“Fubbing significantly reduces perceptions of warmth and competence, which in turn negatively affected perceptions of likability, social attractiveness, and interactions and intention.”
“Okay. Period is you're firm. You're closing the convo.”
“The liquid found in steak or at the bottom of its packaging is not blood. It is a combination of water and a protein called myoglobin.”
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Kat
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Ashley
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Robert Smigel
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Akilah Hughes
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Renee Stubbs
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