Can God's Love Be Real? What If My Real Dad Was Just Abusive?
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In this deeply personal and vulnerable episode of The Candace Cameron Bure Podcast, host Candace welcomes Pastor Francis Chan for a six-week series exploring the profound depth of God's love. The conversation begins with Candace expressing her admiration for Francis, recalling how his preaching at Cornerstone Church profoundly impacted her spiritual journey during her teenage years. Francis shares his painful upbringing—being abandoned by his biological father, raised by his grandmother in Hong Kong, and later enduring abuse from his stepmother and father—revealing how these experiences shaped his struggle to believe in unconditional love. Despite this, he recounts how God’s faithfulness and provision throughout his life became a testament to divine love, even in the midst of trauma. The discussion shifts to the central theme of the book 'Beloved,' where Francis admits he spent his life focused on God’s holiness and judgment but never truly internalized the depth of His love. Candace relates to this struggle, noting that her own secure family background made it harder for her to grasp the supernatural nature of God’s love. They explore the tension between God’s wrath and mercy, addressing listener questions about divine anger and sovereignty, emphasizing that God’s ways are higher than ours and that mystery is part of faith. The episode closes with a call to rest in God’s love, not just as a doctrine but as a lived experience of intimacy and presence.
God’s love is not conditional on your worthiness but is rooted in His character, not your experience.
Trauma from earthly relationships can distort your ability to believe in divine love, but God’s love is the ultimate healing.
Understanding God’s love requires more than intellectual assent—it demands intentional time in stillness and surrender.
God’s holiness and love are not contradictory; they coexist in perfect harmony within His nature.
Prayer is not about changing God’s mind but about aligning your heart with His will and experiencing His presence.
Introduction and Content Warning
Candace opens the episode with a content warning, acknowledging the sensitive nature of the discussion. She introduces the episode’s focus on God’s love in the context of personal trauma and spiritual growth.
Sponsor Segment: Grand Canyon University
A promotional segment for Grand Canyon University, highlighting its Christian values, affordability, and mission-driven education programs.
Sponsor Segment: International Fellowship of Christians and Jews
Candace promotes IFJC, a 40-year-old organization providing humanitarian aid to vulnerable populations in Israel, including Holocaust survivors and the elderly.
Introduction to Francis Chan and Their Shared History
“I started going to Cornerstone and hearing you. And aside from my church as a young like a 12 year old, which was Calvary Chapel. Then in my mid to late, more my later teenage years, I started going to Cornerstone and you were really the first pastor that I listened to and started to understand the depths of sermons, which sparked my relationship with God and started to change everything.”
Francis Chan’s Painful Upbringing and Struggle with God’s Love
“I was tied to the tree and just grabbing branches off the ground and just hitting me till they break. And I'm just screaming till, till, you know, you get to a point where you can't make any noise anymore.”
“I was tied to the tree and just grabbing branches off the ground and just hitting me till they break. And I'm just screaming till, till, you know, you get to a point where you can't make any noise anymore.”
“I don't care if you had the best upbringing or the worst upbringing. And there's people who've had it way worse than I have. And it equally takes a miracle for us to finally go, it's crazy about me.”
“I don't have any regrets from my childhood. Wow, that was a great childhood. Seriously. Even the deaths of my parents, I go, God, you caused me to immediately, like Psalm 90 says, teach me to number my days that I may gain a heart of wisdom.”
Host
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Candace Cameron Bure
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Francis Chan
person
Bible
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Beloved
book
Grand Canyon University
organization
Moses
person
Tubes & Co.
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Cornerstone Church
organization
Lovebird Cereal
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International Fellowship of Christians and Jews
organization
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