I LOVE TUNA MELTS. Ft. Hayley Kiyoko | Episode 226

The Comment Section with Drew Afualo53mJune 17, 2026

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Hayley Kiyoko, the iconic pop artist and director, reveals the deeply personal journey behind her decade-long quest to bring 'Girls Like Girls' from a 2015 music video to a full-length film in theaters on June 19th. She shares how the project became a spiritual homecoming, shot in Kelowna, Canada—where her grandparents are buried—and how casting her lead actress, Maya DeCosta, felt like a divine moment. Kiyoko reflects on the power of queer art as both resistance and joy, especially in turbulent political times, and how her own self-acceptance evolved alongside her work. She describes directing as 'coming home,' a culmination of her identity as a storyteller, musician, and queer woman. Her advice to aspiring artists? Stop taking the long way—be yourself from the start. The episode is a love letter to authenticity, representation, and the quiet, persistent power of staying true to your truth, even when the world says no.

Key Takeaways

Directing 'Girls Like Girls' was a spiritual homecoming, shot in Kelowna, Canada—where Kiyoko’s grandparents are buried—making the journey feel divinely orchestrated.

The film’s lead actress, Maya DeCosta, was cast after Kiyoko saw her sit silently on a bed in her audition tape, instantly recognizing her as the character.

Kiyoko’s advice to queer artists: 'Don’t take the long way'—be yourself from day one, because authenticity is your superpower.

The film’s warm, nostalgic visual tone (set in 2006 but timeless) was intentionally crafted to feel safe, intimate, and emotionally protective for queer viewers.

Kiyoko’s directorial debut includes an album inspired by the film, featuring queer artists, ensuring access for fans who can’t see the movie.

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