How to Handle a Waiting Season (Flashback Episode)

The Family Business with The Alessis: A Christian Parenting and Marriage Podcast29mApril 29, 2026

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The Alessis revisit a powerful conversation about navigating 'waiting seasons'—those liminal periods between life stages like singleness, marriage, parenthood, or career milestones. Lauren Alessi shares her personal journey through a season of infertility, revealing how her initial frustration stemmed from a deep-seated belief that she should have 'all her kids by 28.' Her mother reflects on her own struggles with timing and societal pressure, admitting she didn’t handle waiting well. The core insight? Waiting isn’t failure—it’s preparation. The real test isn’t what happens next, but how you live in the season you’re in. The podcast emphasizes that contentment isn’t passive resignation, but an active choice to cultivate internal pressure—spiritual discipline, emotional maturity, and self-accountability—rather than relying solely on external outcomes. They challenge listeners to stop comparing themselves to others, reframe waiting as a season of contribution, and use it to grow in wisdom, mental strength, and intimacy with God. The episode closes with a radical call: you are not defined by your season, and you have more control over your thoughts and actions than you think.

Key Takeaways
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Waiting seasons are not failures—they are periods of preparation and growth, not exile.

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Contentment is an active choice, not passive acceptance; it requires daily discipline to focus on what is true, noble, and pure.

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External pressure (like friends marrying or advancing) should not dictate your internal state—develop internal motivation instead.

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If you're not growing spiritually, emotionally, or mentally during a waiting season, you're not ready for the next season.

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Prayer must go beyond lip service—mean it even if no one hears it, because authenticity matters more than audience.

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2 min

Introduction: A Flashback Episode

Lauren Alessi returns to the podcast after a break, explaining she’s been in a personal waiting season—now resolved with her recent marriage. She introduces a replay of a heartfelt conversation with her mom about navigating life’s in-between seasons.

1:40
3 min

The Pain of Waiting: A Mother’s Reflection

I had to wait to have kids. I wanted to have kids sooner. I had to wait on that. And the truth of the matter is I did not handle that waiting season well at all.

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5:00
5 min

The Third Child Advantage: Observing the Journey

Lauren reflects on being the third child, which gave her a unique perspective. She watched her siblings move through singleness, marriage, and parenting, allowing her to learn from their experiences without the same pressure.

10:00
5 min

The Myth of the Perfect Timeline

In my mind, I was supposed to have all my kids by the time I was like 24. I had it in my head that for some reason, why would I wait to have children? My clock is ticking.

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15:00
5 min

Anxiety vs. Contentment: The Real Enemy

Anxiety is when you are living in the future, or you're afraid of something that has not happened yet and it is not possible to happen yet.

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High-Impact Quotes
If you're a person that only responds to external pressure, that's not good. You need to grow to be a person that responds to internal pressure.
Mom Alessi23:24
Viral: 88.0
Anxiety is when you are living in the future, or you're afraid of something that has not happened yet and it is not possible to happen yet.
Lauren Alessi12:29
Viral: 85.0
In my mind, I was supposed to have all my kids by the time I was like 24. I had it in my head that for some reason, why would I wait to have children? My clock is ticking.
Mom Alessi6:13
Viral: 82.0

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