944 | How to Go on Vacation (if no one ever taught you how)

The Rachel Hollis Podcast55mApril 7, 2026

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In this empowering episode of The Rachel Hollis Podcast, Rachel dives into the transformative power of vacations—not as mere getaways, but as essential acts of self-care and personal growth. Drawing from her own journey of growing up without real vacations and now traveling as a bougie, budget-conscious mother of four, she shares her philosophy: vacations are not luxuries but necessary investments in your well-being, creativity, and perspective. She breaks down three types of vacations—rest, adventure, and experiential—emphasizing the importance of aligning your trip with your soul’s true craving. Rachel warns against common pitfalls like traveling with incompatible companions, over-planning for Instagram, and failing to plan far enough in advance. She champions the idea of building a dream vacation first, then budgeting for it, not the other way around, and boldly defends her belief in treating herself with worthiness—whether that means first-class travel or a luxury hotel. Ultimately, she argues that asking for more for yourself isn't selfish; it's a spiritual act of claiming your value and creating space for magic in life.

Key Takeaways
1

Vacations are not just breaks—they’re transformative experiences that renew perspective, creativity, and emotional well-being.

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Identify your true vacation type: rest, adventure, or experiential—your soul knows what it craves.

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Traveling with the wrong person can ruin a trip; if you don’t share a travel style, go alone.

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Over-planning for social media validation leads to exhaustion and disconnection—leave space for magic.

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Plan far in advance and build your budget around your dream, not the other way around.

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Chapters
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2 min

The Vacation Gap: Why No One Taught Us How to Travel

I'm talking about a real vacation, a grown woman vacation. The kind where you actually go somewhere new, where you explore, where you rest.

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2:00
3 min

Why Vacations Are a Gift to Yourself and Your Family

I ask myself that question fairly often of like, would I be doing my life differently if I didn’t have kids? And if the answer is yes, then I want to ask myself how I could incorporate some of those things that I desire with my children.

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5:00
5 min

The 3 Types of Vacations: Rest, Adventure, and Experience

One of the ways that I figure this out for me... if you were Oprah and you had all the money in the world and you could do literally anything, how would you spend this day?

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10:00
5 min

The #1 Mistake: Traveling with the Wrong Person

Rachel recounts a painful trip to Paris with her best friend, where mismatched travel styles led to resentment. She argues that if you don’t know someone’s vacation personality, it’s better to go solo—starting locally to build confidence and self-knowledge.

15:00
5 min

The Instagram Trap: When You’re Planning for the Photo, Not the Experience

If you're imagining Paris or the therapy yoga trip or running a marathon, but you wouldn't do that without social media proof that you did it, you don't actually want that experience.

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High-Impact Quotes
The craziest thing happens when you start believing that you deserve more. The world wants us to think that like, if we're just, you know, just put your head down and be a good person and like whatever. That's not energetically how the universe performs.
Rachel Hollis52:59
Viral: 95.0
If you're imagining Paris or the therapy yoga trip or running a marathon, but you wouldn't do that without social media proof that you did it, you don't actually want that experience.
Rachel Hollis33:27
Viral: 90.0
I'm talking about a real vacation, a grown woman vacation. The kind where you actually go somewhere new, where you explore, where you rest.
Rachel Hollis0:29
Viral: 85.0
Speakers

Host

Rachel Hollis
Topics Discussed
Vacation Philosophy95%Self-Worth and Personal Value90%Travel Planning and Budgeting85%Emotional and Creative Renewal80%Mindful Travel and Presence80%Family and Parenting75%Social Media and Authenticity70%Travel with Children65%
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Cabo

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Barcelona

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Switzerland

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Iceland

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Zermatt

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Camino

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Big Sky

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