Self-Awareness Tools with Jason P. Carroll
Leadership isn't about perfection—it's about self-awareness, intentional behavior, and the courage to shift when you're the source of the problem. Jason P. Carroll, founder of Aptiv Index, reveals how even high-performing leaders run 'hot'—constantly in motion, unable to switch off, and often unaware of how their behavior erodes trust. The real breakthrough comes not from self-diagnosis, but from objective tools like psychometric assessments that expose the hidden wiring differences between people. When a CEO who 'steamrolled' meetings realized he was the mismatch in a team of meticulous number-crunchers, he didn’t become a passive leader—he learned to lead with clarity, conviction, and empathy without being an 'asshole.' The most powerful insight? Trust isn’t built by being nice—it’s built by logic, empathy, and authenticity, and it’s eroded in micro-moments. The best leaders don’t just take assessments—they use them daily, like a personal AI coach, to guide conversations, resolve conflict, and realign their team’s culture. This isn’t soft skills—it’s a hard, repeatable system for performance, retention, and human connection. The episode dismantles the myth that emotional intelligence is a one-time training. Instead, it’s a daily practice of asking: 'What did I learn? What behavior will I shift next?' Carroll’s AI-powered tool, ARIA, isn’t just for hiring—it’s used to save marriages, guide leadership retreats, and prevent cultural decay. The most radical idea?
Self-awareness is not about knowing your flaws—it’s about understanding how your behavior impacts others and shifting intentionally.
Most leaders don’t realize they’re the problem until an assessment reveals the wiring gap between them and their team.
Trust is built on logic, empathy, and authenticity—three drivers that can be strengthened daily, not just once.
The best leaders use assessment tools not just for hiring, but as daily AI coaches to guide conflict, communication, and culture.
You don’t have to become someone else—just dial in your strengths so they serve the team, not sabotage it.
…and 3 more takeaways available in PodZeus
Introducing Jason P. Carroll and the Power of Self-Awareness
“The best leaders and team cultures in the world are the ones that make time to step back, breathe in good oxygen and calibrate their thermostat.”
The 'Hot' Leader: Running on Constant Urgency
“I run hot all the time. It's just like visualizing a thermostat, almost like the cartoonish. You know, it hits the top and the steam starts coming out and then the mercury explodes at the top.”
The Trust Crisis: Why 77% of Employees Don’t Trust Leadership
“We're in a very low trusting, low engaged environment. Only 23% of employees say that they trust their leadership.”
The Aha Moment: You’re the Problem (But You Can Fix It)
“So I'm the problem. Like, well, you're close, right? It's not that you're the problem. It's that you're the only one that you can expect to shift and make changes.”
The Three Drivers of Trust: Logic, Empathy, Authenticity
“When people say this is the information I have, this is what... This is how I think about it. This is where I made a mistake, but here's where I'm going to try. When people feel like you're being real, trust goes up.”
“I'm literally not exaggerating two separate clients where the CEO says that Aria saved their marriage. Yeah, I believe it.”
“I don't just need to take the temperature. I need to then say, what am I going to do to shift behavior to set the temperature that we want?”
“I've never been more convinced the best leaders and team cultures in the world are the ones that make time to step back, breathe in good oxygen and calibrate their thermostat.”
Host
Guest
Jason P. Carroll
person
Jason Barger
person
Aptiv Index
organization
ARIA
product
Brene Brown
person
Gallup
organization
StrengthsFinder
product
Harvard Business Review
organization
Gallup Strengths
product
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