Narcissism and Borderline Dynamics from the Inside-Out with Brad Kammer, CTTC Training Director & Faculty

In this episode of Transforming Trauma, host Emily Roof sits down with Brad Kammer, CTTC Training Director and Faculty, to explore the origin and purpose of the Inside Out Teaching Series—a transformative initiative designed to help mental health professionals confront their own narcissistic and borderline dynamics. Kammer shares how his personal journey with covert narcissism, shaped by a family system steeped in narcissistic patterns, led him to create a safe, nonjudgmental space for therapists to explore their inner worlds. The series, which began with 'Narcissism from the Inside Out,' emphasizes experiential learning over theoretical instruction, using dyads, group discussions, and role plays to foster vulnerability, self-compassion, and relational awareness. Kammer stresses that these patterns are not moral failings but part of normal development that become pathological when dissociated from. The upcoming 'Borderline from the Inside Out' workshop will delve into relational sensitivity, fear of abandonment, boundary struggles, and the overlap between covert narcissism and borderline dynamics. The overarching message is that therapists must first heal their own shadows to become more present, effective, and compassionate clinicians. The series also includes a future workshop on intergenerational and cultural trauma, continuing CTTC’s mission of integrating personal and professional growth. Key takeaways include: 1) Therapists must examine their own narcissistic and borderline patterns to avoid projection and burnout; 2) The Inside Out series offers a safe, experiential space for deep self-inquiry; 3) Covert narcissism and borderline dynamics often coexist and are rooted in early attachment wounds; 4) Setting authentic boundaries is essential for therapist well-being and client autonomy; 5) Healing begins with self-compassion and recognizing that all humans carry these patterns; 6) The therapeutic relationship is transformed when clinicians are in touch with their own inner world; 7) Trauma is not just client-centered—it’s also a professional and relational challenge; 8) The series models how to humanize clinical labels and reclaim the humanity in both therapist and client.