SOLO | Make Money by Avoiding Life’s Biggest Regrets, part 1

Travis Makes Money16mApril 20, 2026

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The most common regrets of the dying aren't about money or career failure—they're about living a life shaped by others' expectations, avoiding risk, and suppressing emotions. In this powerful episode, Travis Makes Money dives into Bronnie Ware's research on the top five regrets of palliative care patients, revealing that the number one regret is: 'I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected of me.' This isn't just a philosophical musing—it's a wake-up call for anyone trapped in a path they didn't choose. Travis shares a personal story of leaving ministry despite lifelong family and religious pressure, realizing too late that he was living for approval, not authenticity. He then unpacks the second regret—'I wish I hadn't worked so hard'—and how the relentless grind cost him precious time with his young children. The episode challenges the cultural myth that hard work equals virtue, arguing instead that meaningful work must be balanced with presence, relationships, and emotional honesty. The third regret—'I let fear run my life'—sets the stage for the next part, where Travis will explore how to build a money strategy that supports courage, not compliance. This isn't about quitting your job or chasing wild dreams. It's about aligning your actions with your values, even when it’s uncomfortable. Travis argues that parents who play it safe teach their kids fear, not courage.

Key Takeaways
1

The #1 regret of the dying is not money, but 'I wish I'd had the courage to live a life true to myself, not the life others expected.'

2

You are the only person who lives with your choices every day—don’t let past authority figures dictate your present.

3

Working hard isn’t the problem—working so hard you miss your children’s formative years is the real cost.

4

Your kids learn courage by watching you take risks, not by hearing you say 'be brave.'

5

Fear should not be the primary decision-maker in your life—your dreams should be.

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Chapters
0:00
3 min

The Power of Regret: A Life Reflection

Travis introduces the episode by setting up the core theme: the regrets of the dying aren't about money, but about authenticity, presence, and courage. He frames the episode as a wake-up call to live a life true to oneself.

2:30
5 min

Regret #1: Living for Others, Not Yourself

I'm the only one that has to wake up every single day and look at me in the mirror. I'm the only one there's so, so I was making decisions with what to do for 365 days a year based on the five to seven days a year that I may or may not see these authority figures from growing up.

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7:30
5 min

Regret #2: Working Too Hard at the Cost of Time

You're going to spend the majority of your time that you will ever spend with your kids from ages zero to 10. It's like it's some crazy high number, like 70 or 80 percent of the total time you'll ever spend with your kids is gone by the time they're like 12 years old.

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12:30
4 min

Regret #3: Letting Fear Control Your Life

They're going to learn more by what you do than they are by what you say. So you're doing it for the kids, but in reality, it's actually the thing that might be the most hurtful to them.

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High-Impact Quotes
I'm the only one that has to wake up every single day and look at me in the mirror. I'm the only one there's so, so I was making decisions with what to do for 365 days a year based on the five to seven days a year that I may or may not see these authority figures from growing up.
Travis6:28
Viral: 85.0
You're going to spend the majority of your time that you will ever spend with your kids from ages zero to 10. It's like it's some crazy high number, like 70 or 80 percent of the total time you'll ever spend with your kids is gone by the time they're like 12 years old.
Travis12:26
Viral: 82.0
They're going to learn more by what you do than they are by what you say. So you're doing it for the kids, but in reality, it's actually the thing that might be the most hurtful to them.
Travis15:12
Viral: 80.0
Speakers

Host

Travis
Topics Discussed
regrets of the dying95%living authentically90%work-life balance85%parenting and presence80%fear-based decision making75%courage and risk70%money and purpose65%
People & Brands

Travis

person

40xPositive

children

other

12xPositive

ministry

organization

6xNeutral

Bronnie Ware

person

5xNeutral

family pressure

other

4xNeutral

Bible college

organization

3xNeutral

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