#476 Mentlaity Wins with former Harvard Womens Basketball Coach Kathy Delaney-Smith,, NFL and MLB Sport Psychologist Dr Jonathan Jenkins, and Sport Psychologist and NCAA Champion Dr. Kimberly O'Brien

Way of Champions Podcast1h 18mApril 8, 2026

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In this powerful episode of the Way of Champions podcast, host Jon O'Sullivan brings together three leading voices in sports psychology and coaching: Kathy Delaney-Smith, former Harvard women's basketball coach with 40 seasons and 600+ wins; Dr. Jonathan Jenkins, clinical psychologist for the New England Patriots and Boston Red Sox; and Dr. Kimberly O'Brien, founder of Unlimited Resilience and NCAA champion athlete. The conversation centers on the transformative power of mentality in sports and life, emphasizing that true success comes not from wins alone, but from cultivating joy, resilience, gratitude, and love within athletic environments. The guests explore how modern youth face unprecedented mental health challenges due to over-scheduling, 'snowplow parenting,' and social media-driven comparison, leading to a crisis of relevance and belonging. They advocate for a shift from performance obsession to holistic development, promoting 'type two fun'—challenging, collaborative experiences that build lasting joy and connection. Central to their message is the idea that 'feeling equals function': when athletes feel valued, seen, and grateful, they perform at higher levels. The discussion highlights the importance of the 'mirror and window' philosophy in leadership, where coaches take responsibility (mirror) rather than blame others (window), and the need for coaches, parents, and athletes to co-create safe, supportive cultures where mental health and personal growth are prioritized. The episode concludes with a call to view sport as a classroom for life, not just a path to victory.

Key Takeaways
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Mentality wins over talent: Joy, love, and resilience are more critical to long-term success than statistics or wins.

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Type two fun—challenging, collaborative experiences like grueling hikes or tough practices—build deeper joy and connection than easy, party-like 'type one fun'.

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Gratitude is a daily practice: Taking 5 minutes to list what you're grateful for and feeling it in your body rewires the brain for resilience and joy.

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Coaches must lead from love, not fear: The most powerful leadership is rooted in prioritizing athletes' well-being and making them feel seen, valued, and important.

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The 'mirror and window' philosophy: Great leaders look in the mirror after failure (it's my responsibility) and out the window after success (it's the team's achievement).

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Chapters
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10 min

Sponsor Intro & Episode Vision

Jon O'Sullivan introduces the episode's sponsors—Zone 14 Coaching and Sprocket Sports—and sets the stage for a conversation on the mental game in sports. He highlights the importance of self-awareness, reflection, and intentional coaching, teasing the arrival of a new book on team captains.

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10 min

The State of Youth Sports & Mental Health

I felt I had to teach leadership way more than I did when I started coaching. It doesn't happen as organically as it used to.

Highlight
20:00
10 min

The Power of Love, Joy, and Fun in Coaching

I'm going to line you up and run you is an act of love in and of itself. Don't keep it inside you, coach.

Highlight
30:00
10 min

Gratitude as a Foundation for Performance

Gratefulness becomes a teaching point for not only the athletes. But the parents, so many of the parents, they're always complaining...

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40:00
10 min

The Four Pillars of a Winning Mentality

Jonathan and Kim unpack the core framework of their book, *Mentality Wins*: Focus, Flow, Finish, and Flourish. They explain how these pillars support both mental health and peak performance, with 'Flourish' emphasizing identity beyond sport and the importance of diversifying one's life to build resilience.

High-Impact Quotes
I'm not going to let a scoreboard do that. I'm not going to let a publisher tell me I can't publish this book. I refuse to give other people permission to interfere with my mission.
Jerry71:13
Viral: 92.0
When there's a loss or a mistake, they look in the mirror. It's on me. When there's a success, they look out the window and see everything that they've been able to accomplish.
Jonathan Jenkins65:08
Viral: 90.0
I'm going to line you up and run you is an act of love in and of itself. Don't keep it inside you, coach.
Kathy Delaney-Smith19:15
Viral: 88.0
Speakers

Host

Jon O'Sullivan

Guests

Kathy Delaney-SmithDr. Jonathan JenkinsDr. Kimberly O'Brien
Topics Discussed
Mental Health in Youth Sports95%The Role of Sport as a Life Classroom92%Love and Care in Coaching90%Coaching Philosophy and Leadership90%Gratitude and Mindfulness Practices88%Resilience and Perseverance87%Type Two Fun and Adversity85%Parent-Coach Communication80%
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Dr. Jonathan Jenkins

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Dr. Kimberly O'Brien

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Jerry

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Jon O'Sullivan

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Mentality Wins

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Harvard University

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Way of Champions Podcast

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New England Patriots

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Boston Red Sox

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