Episode 86 - Unfortunately Heterosexual

Who's The Bitch?1h 19mMay 20, 2026

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In Episode 86 of *Who's the Bitch?*, titled 'Unfortunately Heterosexual,' hosts Jackie and Tara tackle a series of emotionally charged, socially complex dilemmas with their signature blend of raw honesty, humor, and fierce advocacy. The episode opens with a playful yet pointed critique of modern social etiquette—specifically, the rise of disruptive behavior in shared public spaces, from movie theaters to saunas—where people’s hyper-individualism has eroded communal respect. This leads into a deeply personal and painful email from 'Alex,' who discovers her ex-partner, with whom she has a restraining order, now lives in the same apartment building as her new girlfriend. The hosts deliver a powerful message: while no one is to blame for the bad luck, the psychological toll of living in constant fear makes it impossible to truly feel safe. They urge Alex to consult a lawyer and consider relocating—not out of weakness, but out of self-preservation. The conversation then shifts to a more nuanced moral dilemma: a woman whose partner was convicted of a DUI that killed his girlfriend, now facing judgment from friends despite his years of therapy and reform. The hosts condemn the friends’ unforgiving stance, calling it a failure of empathy and a symptom of a broken justice system that doesn’t support rehabilitation. They argue that people deserve second chances, especially when they’ve actively worked to change.

Key Takeaways
1

If you’re in a legally restricted relationship and discover your ex lives in your building, consult a lawyer immediately—your mental health and safety outweigh the cost of moving.

2

People who’ve committed serious crimes can and should be given a chance to change, especially after years of therapy and accountability—judging them forever is both cruel and counterproductive.

3

Using a friend’s address to get your child into a better school is a form of privilege that undermines public education and deepens inequality—choose your local school and help improve it.

4

Public spaces like saunas are meant for relaxation, not workouts—gym staff should enforce etiquette rules to prevent hygiene issues and discomfort.

5

Don’t force yourself to pursue a romantic connection just because someone is kind or asks about your day—your physical attraction and emotional boundaries matter.

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Chapters
0:00
5 min

Welcome to the Bitch-a-thon: Buzz Balls & Bad Behavior

The hosts kick off the episode with a playful yet pointed commentary on modern social etiquette, teasing the upcoming Bitch-a-thon event and introducing the theme of disruptive behavior in public spaces.

5:00
5 min

The Movie That Wasn’t a Movie: Clapping, Commentary, and Caveman Times

Jackie shares her experience seeing *The Devil Wears Prada 2*, highlighting the joy of audience camaraderie—until a man’s loud commentary ruins the vibe. The hosts reflect on how post-pandemic social norms have eroded in shared experiences.

10:00
5 min

Squish Town: The Horror of Sound Effects and Nightmare Jobs

The hosts dive into their shared aversion to visceral sound effects in horror films, with Tara recounting a traumatic experience with *Nope* and Jackie revealing her brother’s work on creature sounds—turning it into a nightmare job.

15:00
10 min

The Ex Who Lives in My Building: Legal Boundaries & Emotional Safety

I would say... I'm just, our thing is get the fuck out of there. Get out of there. Get out of there. Try to get out of there.

Highlight
25:00
15 min

The Man Who Killed His Girlfriend: Can He Be Forgiven?

I just don't understand people. Like, I'm really wondering if like your friends are like Christian because like it's giving it to me. It's giving like the judgmental that I hear all the time.

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High-Impact Quotes
guess... I guess I'm just, our thing is get the fuck out of there. Get out of there. Get out of there. Try to get out of there.
Jackie30:09
Viral: 88.0
I just don't understand people. Like, I'm really wondering if like your friends are like Christian because like it's giving it to me. It's giving like the judgmental that I hear all the time.
Tara38:43
Viral: 82.0
think your husband has. Got it. Like there's going to be a million ways that I can already tell by how you write and how much care you have for your child, that you already are providing your kid with privileges that other kids don't have.
Jackie59:39
Viral: 76.0
Speakers

Hosts

JackieTara
Topics Discussed
restraining order95%public education90%second chances88%online dating85%community responsibility82%sauna etiquette80%workplace relationships78%mental health75%
People & Brands

Jackie

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120xPositive

Tara

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115xPositive

Los Angeles

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The Devil Wears Prada 2

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15xPositive

Sauna

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12xNeutral

Bitch-a-thon

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10xPositive

Grindr

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8xNeutral

Nice White Parents

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4xPositive

The Pit

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3xNeutral

Isa Briones

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