Jo Cox 10 years on, Actor Geraldine James, Swinging investigation

Woman's Hour57mJune 16, 2026
AI-Generated Summary

Ten years after the murder of MP Jo Cox, this episode of Woman's Hour confronts the enduring crisis of online abuse and intimidation faced by women in public life. Despite promises of a more respectful politics, data reveals that 96% of MPs have experienced threats, with women and ethnic minority politicians disproportionately targeted. The Jo Cox Foundation's CEO and a government think tank researcher detail how security has improved but systemic toxicity remains, normalizing self-censorship and deterring diverse voices from entering politics. The episode then shifts to a powerful investigation into the dark underbelly of the swinging community, exposing how one woman was coerced into hundreds of non-consensual sexual encounters through a popular website, with her ex-husband refusing to respond and the platform failing to protect her. A solicitor specializing in domestic abuse reveals how such experiences are weaponized through threats of exposure, creating a climate of fear that silences victims. In contrast, the episode ends on a hopeful note, spotlighting a resurgence in women-led specialty bookshops—particularly fantasy and romance—where readers seek emotional refuge from digital overload, finding connection and escapism in physical, curated spaces.

Key Takeaways
1

96% of MPs have experienced threats, with women and ethnic minority politicians disproportionately targeted, despite improved security measures.

2

Coercive control in swinging relationships is a hidden form of domestic abuse, with victims often trapped by fear of exposure and shame.

3

Websites like Fab Swingers fail to enforce real consent, and police often dismiss abuse claims based on prior enthusiastic messages.

4

Women in public life are increasingly self-censoring due to fear for their safety and their families' well-being.

5

The rise of specialist fantasy bookshops reflects a cultural shift toward seeking emotional safety and escapism from digital toxicity.

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Chapters
0:00
3 min

Marking 10 Years Since Jo Cox's Murder

Jo was just one of the nicest people you could hope to meet. And I know we always say nice things about people when they pass away, don't they? But she really was.

Highlight
3:14
6 min

The State of Political Safety for Women

We know that the majority, 96% of MPs, have experienced threatening behaviour... and we know that across the board, whether you're looking at local politicians or national politicians, women in particular are disproportionately affected.

Highlight
9:16
9 min

The Hidden Crisis in the Swinging Community

I realised he really doesn't care about my body. All these men are abusing my body. It's getting infected, getting unwell and now this termination is happening and yet I'm still having to meet these men.

Highlight
18:11
14 min

Geraldine James on Long Marriage and the Power of Truth

Actor Geraldine James discusses her role in the stage adaptation of '45 Years', exploring how secrets and unspoken truths can unravel decades of marriage, drawing parallels to her own family's experience with hidden trauma.

32:06
25 min

The Rise of Women-Driven Fantasy Bookshops

The episode closes with a hopeful look at the resurgence of physical bookshops, particularly those specializing in fantasy and romance, where women are finding community, escapism, and emotional safety from digital overload.

High-Impact Quotes
I realised he really doesn't care about my body. All these men are abusing my body. It's getting infected, getting unwell and now this termination is happening and yet I'm still having to meet these men.
Ruth (anonymous victim)36:35
We know that the majority, 96% of MPs, have experienced threatening behaviour and we know that across the board, whether you're looking at local politicians or national politicians, women in particular are disproportionately... So we can't honestly say that those promises have been kept.
Olivia Field5:42
Jo was just one of the nicest people you could hope to meet. And I know we always say nice things about people when they pass away, don't they? But she really was.
Kim Ledbeater3:26
Speakers

Host

Kate Lamble

Guests

Olivia FieldAlice LillyGeraldine JamesCatherine NyeRachel Horman-BrownAmanda Logan
Topics Discussed
coercive control in relationships95%swinging and consent92%domestic abuse and trauma90%political safety for women90%online abuse and intimidation88%Jo Cox Foundation85%fantasy bookstores75%women and digital detox70%
People & Brands

Jo Cox

person

12xPositive

Geraldine James

person

8xPositive

Fab Swingers

organization

7xNegative

Rachel Horman-Brown

person

6xPositive

Olivia Field

person

6xNeutral

Jo Cox Foundation

organization

6xPositive

Amanda Logan

person

5xPositive

Alice Lilly

person

5xNeutral

Ritual Reads

organization

4xPositive

Kim Ledbeater

person

4xPositive

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