How To Make Dates That Turn Women On Instead Of Off

Coach Corey Wayne addresses a common dating dilemma: how to turn interest into a confirmed date without pushing a woman away. He critiques a listener who, despite clear signs of romantic interest from a coworker—flirty texts, shared jokes, and expressed enthusiasm for a bar outing—failed to act decisively. Instead of making a direct, specific invitation with a definite day, time, and place, the man used vague language like 'the offer is on the table' and accepted 'maybe' responses, which Corey calls a 'floppycock routine.' He emphasizes that men must be the 'appointment center'—direct, decisive, and in control—because women often test a man’s confidence through ambiguity. Corey warns that allowing vagueness communicates low self-worth and leads to emotional frustration. He advises using firm, clear language to get a definite yes or no, and to avoid dithering, which he equates with emotional masturbation. The episode ends with a call to action for listeners to join his premium coaching program for deeper relationship mastery.