How Women Want To Feel Your Strength & Are Repulsed By Weakness
The core idea that women are drawn to masculine strength—not dominance, but self-possession—reshapes how men should approach intimacy and decision-making in relationships. Coach Corey Wayne argues that true strength isn't about control, but about resisting manipulation through calm, unshaken confidence. He reveals that women often test men with playful, absurd demands—like refusing to visit or changing plans last minute—not to punish, but to see if a man will crack under pressure. The real power move? Laughing it off, staying indifferent, and doing exactly what you want. This isn’t about being stubborn—it’s about being unshakable. When a man refuses to cave to a ridiculous request, or delays his orgasm to let a woman experience multiple climaxes, he’s not being selfish—he’s demonstrating sovereignty. The result? A woman who feels safe, excited, and deeply turned on by a man who isn’t chasing her approval. Wayne’s message is clear: vulnerability isn’t weakness; it’s the opposite. True strength is the ability to stay grounded, even when she’s testing you. And when you do, she’ll not only respect you more—but she’ll fall deeper in love. The episode dismantles the myth that men must please women to be loved. Instead, Wayne shows that women are repulsed by men who panic, over-explain, or compromise their values to avoid conflict.
Women are turned on by men who resist their requests, especially when those requests are absurd or playful, because it proves self-possession.
The most erotic moment in sex is when a man delays his orgasm to let a woman have multiple climaxes, showing he’s in control of his own body and desires.
When a woman says 'I’m not coming to see you,' she’s testing your strength—not asking you to panic or beg.
True strength is staying calm and indifferent when she tries to manipulate you with half-joking ultimatums.
Refusing to eat something you hate or change your plans just to please her builds deeper respect and attraction.
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The Core Principle: Women Want Your Strength
“Women want to feel your strength and are repulsed by weakness.”
The Bedroom Test: Delaying Orgasm as Power
“She keeps going and she can have, and then she starts having multiple orgasms because it's really erotic and really turns her on because you're doing what you want.”
The Playful Test: When She Says 'I'm Not Coming'
“I'm not in any way, shape or form doubting that she's going to come see me. It's kind of absurd but I understand why she's doing it because she's a girl and that's what they do.”
Resisting the Absurd: Sticking to Your Values
Corey emphasizes that refusing to compromise on personal preferences—like eating sushi you hate or buying a red car you dislike—demonstrates authenticity and self-respect, which women find deeply attractive.
The Real Goal: Building Unshakable Confidence
The episode concludes with the idea that women aren’t looking for a man who agrees with them—they’re looking for one who remains calm, playful, and unbothered. When you’re not reactive, the tests stop, and real intimacy begins.
“And the topic of today's newsletter is going to be how women want to feel your strength and are repulsed by weakness.”
“She keeps going and she can have, and then she starts having multiple orgasms because it's really erotic and really turns her on because you're doing what you want.”
“It's like I'm not in any way, shape or form doubting that she's going to come see me. It's kind of absurd but I understand why she's doing it because she's a girl and that's what they do.”
Host
Coach Corey Wayne
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understandingrelationships.com
product
3% Man
book
Mastering Yourself
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Steve McQueen
person
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