Mom Shaming, Crying Videos, and Not Giving a F*ck with Jackie Schimmel

Girls Gotta Eat1h 28mApril 6, 2026

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In this vibrant and unapologetic episode of Girls Gotta Eat, hosts Raina Greenberg, Ashley, and Ash Hess join guest Jackie Schimmel for a dynamic mix of personal reflection, cultural critique, and fiery social commentary. The conversation begins with a playful debate over nuanced vocabulary and quickly evolves into a heartfelt discussion about long-term relationships, where the hosts advise that fading attraction after six years is a red flag—intimacy and desire can’t be forced. Jackie challenges the societal expectation of motherhood, proudly rejecting the label 'mama' and advocating for identity beyond parenting, while also defending her radical wellness journey involving red light therapy and bioresonance as personal acts of self-care. The episode takes sharp turns into social media critique, with the hosts dismantling the performative nature of 'crying videos' and mocking the overuse of sad 90s music in nostalgic reels, calling out the emotional manipulation behind curated vulnerability. They also roast Jennifer Lopez’s interior design aesthetic as out of touch and excessive, and rail against impractical fashion trends like side tucks and thong bikinis, emphasizing comfort and authenticity over trend-chasing. The segment culminates in a passionate call to action about public etiquette—condemning loud phone usage in shared spaces like coffee shops, planes, and restaurants—and proposing enforceable rules like headphone mandates, grounded in the principle: 'What if everyone did this?'—a thought experiment that underscores collective responsibility and social harmony.

Key Takeaways
1

Attraction in long-term relationships cannot be forced; if it's gone after several years, it's time to reevaluate the relationship.

2

Your identity is valid beyond motherhood—reject societal pressure to define yourself solely by parenting.

3

Crying videos and nostalgic social media content are often performative and emotionally manipulative, not authentic.

4

Radical wellness practices can be empowering self-care, even if they seem unconventional or bizarre.

5

Public device usage without headphones disrupts shared spaces—use the 'what if everyone did this?' rule to guide behavior.

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Chapters
0:00
2 min

Vocabulary Wars: Oscillate vs. Vacillate

The hosts begin with a playful debate over the correct usage of 'oscillate' and 'vacillate,' highlighting their shared habit of adopting new words and repeating them for memorability. They reflect on how language evolves and why using accessible, meaningful words matters more than impressing with obscure ones.

2:15
4 min

The Six-Year Relationship Dilemma

You can't force attraction or hope it grows forever. Like you go on one, two, three dates with somebody and you're like, maybe I'll feel attracted. You hear all these guys that wore down. But like we're six years, I'm curious if they ever had a really good sex life.

Highlight
6:00
3 min

Motherhood: Identity Beyond 'Mama'

The day that you see mama in my bio, please call the cops and lock me up. 100%. I do not identify as a mother. Nobody likes when I say that, but I really mean that. Like, that is not one of my pronouns.

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9:00
68 min

Crying Videos, Wellness, and 90s Nostalgia

I don't like that either. It's like, sure my life looks great but I struggle. Like it's all packaged. It's marketing. I don't like it. It's a stale take to me.

Highlight
1:12:50
1 min

The Goo Goo Dolls Nostalgia Trap

It's giving eulogy. I'm so mad about the song choice. Are we trying to be sad about the 90s?

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High-Impact Quotes
Jenny from the block has dust ruffles. Oh, look at her Georgian home interior. It is undersized. She's got a love seat with like a floral motif and a fucking dust ruffle with all of these pillows. She's trolling us.
Jackie Schimmel77:22
Viral: 90.0
The day that you see mama in my bio, please call the cops and lock me up. 100%. I do not identify as a mother.
Jackie Schimmel20:11
Viral: 90.0
You are so terrible. You are so entitled. You have no friends. Clearly that's why you're doing this.
Ash Hess81:57
Viral: 88.0
Speakers

Hosts

Raina GreenbergAshleyAsh Hess

Guest

Jackie Schimmel
Topics Discussed
Public Etiquette92%public etiquette and personal space92%Loud Behavior in Shared Spaces90%Relationships and Attraction90%Social Responsibility89%social media nostalgia trends85%Motherhood Identity85%Social Media Authenticity80%fashion microtrends and body autonomy78%
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Jackie Schimmel

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Raina

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Ashley

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The Bitch Bible

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jennifer lopez

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8xNegative

goo goo dolls

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FPMovement

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4xPositive

Nutrafol

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BetterHelp

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3xPositive

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