r/Topposts I Saw Her B-Hole Hole

A woman agonizes over whether she was morally obligated to tell a stranger at Pilates that her leggings had a hole exposing her buttocks—only to be told by the host that her own discomfort matters just as much. Meanwhile, another woman recounts a mother-in-law who weaponizes emotional intimacy, gaslights her, and attempts to sabotage her engagement by framing her as a villain in her son’s life. The most intense story comes from a Christian parent shocked by their 18-year-old daughter’s secret, years-long creative universe of dark, sexually charged fanfiction and world-building—only to be told by the host that their reaction is disproportionate and that the daughter is simply an adult exercising creative freedom. The episode culminates in a biting satire of emotional manipulation, where a woman cancels her ex’s first-class flight using her own miles—because 'exploring the world' shouldn’t come with a safety net. The core tension isn’t about right or wrong, but about who gets to define the boundaries of privacy, adulthood, and emotional ownership in relationships.