The After Show: Stalking Samantha – 13 Years of Terror

20/2024mJune 15, 2026
AI-Generated Summary

A woman stalked for over a decade by a man who escalated from persistent attention to kidnapping and imprisonment in a soundproof bunker—only to be released after a harrowing ordeal—has become a chilling case study in how stalking can spiral into violence. The story of Samantha Stites, detailed in the Hulu docuseries *Stalking Samantha: 13 Years of Terror*, reveals a pattern of obsession that defied repeated rejections, legal protections, and even a six-year restraining order. Despite her efforts to protect herself, the stalker followed her across states, infiltrated her social circles, and ultimately broke into her home. Criminologist Casey Jordan, interviewed on *20/20 The After Show*, explains that stalking is not just about harassment—it’s a form of psychological warfare, often escalating from 'incompetent suitor' behavior to predatory violence. The episode underscores a critical truth: no one should wait for physical violence to act. Early documentation, public confrontation, and immediate legal intervention are essential. With one in five women experiencing stalking in their lifetime, the episode serves as a vital public service, offering concrete steps to recognize red flags and access resources like SPARC and RAINN before it’s too late.

Key Takeaways
1

Stalking is a form of psychological violence that can escalate to kidnapping and murder, even without prior romantic relationship.

2

Document every interaction—use screenshots, emails, and video recordings to create time-stamped evidence before a stalker claims you're 'making it up'.

3

If someone ignores 'no' repeatedly, follows you, or shows up in your life despite clear rejection, treat it as a serious threat and act immediately.

4

A restraining order is not a guarantee of safety; the real protection comes from consistent documentation and a support network.

5

Use a dedicated email for stalker communications and CC a trusted friend to ensure evidence is preserved and time-stamped.

…and 3 more takeaways available in PodZeus

Chapters
0:00
24 min

The Case That Changed the Conversation on Stalking

He followed her to a whole new town where she relocated after finishing her master's in social work. She got a job in Traverse City, Michigan, and settled there. He followed her there.

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1:50
3 min

Understanding the Mind of a Stalker

All stalking is violence. And we talk about, okay, the physical violence might be what we most fear. But I can't even... the psychological and emotional violence of the stalking behavior can be even worse than the fear of physical attack.

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6:30
4 min

The Power of the Order of Protection

Samantha Stites obtained a rare six-year order of protection after documenting years of harassment. The stalker complied for six years, leading to false security—but the episode warns that compliance doesn’t equal safety.

11:08
2 min

The Night She Was Taken

She talks about being fearful she was going to die.

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18:02
4 min

Red Flags and How to Respond

Document everything. Even your, and I'm a big believer in say things in front of people, and record everything.

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High-Impact Quotes
The stalker could say, she's making this up. Yeah, yeah. Receipts is what they call it these days. Have receipts. Have a receipt, time date stamp and email yourself every single time and all those screenshots in case you lose your phone.
Casey Jordan21:27
So document everything. Even your, and I'm a big believer in say things in front of people, and record everything.
Casey Jordan20:22
He followed her to a whole new town where she relocated after finishing her master's in social work. She got a job in Traverse City, Michigan, and settled there. He followed her there.
Debra Roberts10:15
Speakers

Host

Debra Roberts

Guest

Casey Jordan
Topics Discussed
stalking95%stalker red flags90%victim advocacy88%legal protection for victims85%domestic violence85%psychological violence82%restraining orders80%cyber stalking70%
People & Brands

Samantha Stites

person

15xPositive

Casey Jordan

person

12xPositive

Christopher Thomas

person

8xNegative

Debra Roberts

person

6xNeutral

20/20

media

5xNeutral

Hulu

media

4xNeutral

SPARC

organization

3xPositive

RAINN

organization

2xPositive

ABC Audio

media

2xNeutral

Angie Dodge

person

2xNeutral

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